How to get a husband, not a boyfriend.  First it is about being confident; knowing who you are as a woman.  Secondly, you have to know what you are looking for in a man.  Do you want a tall guy, short guy, black guy, white guy etc.  It's all about your preference.  Then ladys put on some damn clothes.  If you want to be treated as a hoe a good way is to show to much to fast.  Let a man work for the prize.  He may hate the chase.  Guess what, that is the one you kick to the curb.  Ladys the man you want will chase you and only you, till you give in.  He will also chase you after marriage. I will give you that in another blog, lol to soon for that.  As a man chases you, you as a woman have to set boundaries.  You have to know when you want to give up what.  Date one, a hug.  Date two same, a hug.  Date three a kiss.  Never allow yourself to be put into a situation that can lead to sex to early.  That means no in home visits,"none."  It may sound romantic he wants to cook; but you have no idea if this man wants to hit it and quit it.  It should be at least 3 to 6 months before any home visits.  Take your time get to know him.  What does he do for a living?  Does he have baby momma drama?  What is his credit score?  Run a background check ladys don't be scared know what you are getting into.  See how long it takes for him to bring up meeting his mother.  Typically if a man is looking to spend his life with you, meeting mom won't take long.  If you do meet the mother you can be sure how he treats his mother is how he will treat you.  When you do finally get to the home visit offer to cook first; because a way to a man's heart is through his stomach.  Lady if you can give a half decent message, you are home free.  One thing to never forget is; if you are not interested in something do not pretend it will show.  If you want a man to feel needed ask him to fix something.  It does not matter what it is.   How to get a husband, not a boyfriend part 1.  This is Rodney Larkins with soul filled life.