SEX

Sex is a beautiful thing if you are with the one you love.  If you are with a person you are shacking up with for the time it is a waist of emotions; yes emotions.  You can sleep with a person and think yeah no strings attached.  Truth is strings will always attached themselves.  Good sex I mean that grab your toes lick your fingers stuff should only be shared with your husband or wife, that life long partner.  Being in the word fornicating is wrong.  But if you choose to be out there do not give all your goodies up, because then what will you give your husband or your wife.  A life partner "husband or wife" deserves all the magical tricks you have to show.  I love my wife and will please in every way.  She is my Queen, no one before her has ever had what I give to her.  This Rodney Larkins with Soul filled life only give true passion to who you love.

Let go and live

Sometimes it is hard to let go, lets admit we are only human.  In order to let go we have to get to the core of the problem, us.  The person that has done you wrong, are they worthy of being forgiven?  The answer is "Yes" than why can't we do so.  I feel that it is something within us that won't allow it.  Once we evaluated the issue and accepted that what the person or people have done no longer carries any weight, we can let it go.  I have dealt with many things in my life that I could not let go at first.  I realized that it blocked my blessings.  I myself hated the man that killed my best friend, not knowing the whole story.  When I learned the whole story, I had to let it go.  My kids hated me for a long time because, their mother brainwashed them into thinking I did not love them after the divorce.  I eventually had the opportunity to sit down with them and explain the real story; my wrongs her wrongs and really share my love with them.  My children and I have since then let the past go.  Life, despite what you may think is short.  Think about how many times you have said "I can not wait till I am grown."  Well also think about when you became grown, how many times you wish you could go back to before you were grown.  In order to not reach the stage where you wish you have to go back, learn how to let go now.  It does not have to always be about the other person, let go for you.  Clear your heart, free your spirit.   Going through life knowing you have forgiven as Jesus did and does, is a good feeling.  It is not easy at all; but when you do forgive it is a since of peace that will come over you.  I challenge you to find a person that has really done you wrong, and forgive them.  That does not mean be their friend.  That means whatever they did that no longer carries weight in your life, let it go.  Do not talk about it anymore, do not think of it anymore; just let it go.  If you can do this, message me and tell me what good has happen in your life after this challenge.  This is Rodney Larkins with Soul Filled Life "Let go and live."

How to get a husband, not a boyfriend.  First it is about being confident; knowing who you are as a woman.  Secondly, you have to know what you are looking for in a man.  Do you want a tall guy, short guy, black guy, white guy etc.  It's all about your preference.  Then ladys put on some damn clothes.  If you want to be treated as a hoe a good way is to show to much to fast.  Let a man work for the prize.  He may hate the chase.  Guess what, that is the one you kick to the curb.  Ladys the man you want will chase you and only you, till you give in.  He will also chase you after marriage. I will give you that in another blog, lol to soon for that.  As a man chases you, you as a woman have to set boundaries.  You have to know when you want to give up what.  Date one, a hug.  Date two same, a hug.  Date three a kiss.  Never allow yourself to be put into a situation that can lead to sex to early.  That means no in home visits,"none."  It may sound romantic he wants to cook; but you have no idea if this man wants to hit it and quit it.  It should be at least 3 to 6 months before any home visits.  Take your time get to know him.  What does he do for a living?  Does he have baby momma drama?  What is his credit score?  Run a background check ladys don't be scared know what you are getting into.  See how long it takes for him to bring up meeting his mother.  Typically if a man is looking to spend his life with you, meeting mom won't take long.  If you do meet the mother you can be sure how he treats his mother is how he will treat you.  When you do finally get to the home visit offer to cook first; because a way to a man's heart is through his stomach.  Lady if you can give a half decent message, you are home free.  One thing to never forget is; if you are not interested in something do not pretend it will show.  If you want a man to feel needed ask him to fix something.  It does not matter what it is.   How to get a husband, not a boyfriend part 1.  This is Rodney Larkins with soul filled life.

Love who you want, no matter what the color.  There are alot of people that will disagree with interracial couples.  But to be honest, that is the barrier of racism being broken.  Some are not ready for change, even though they say change gone come.  Society speaks of us being equal but will not let the talk of racism die.  Yes it is ok to know your roots; but let the past be the past.  Lets love free and open.  If you are truly in love, then you will not care who gives their opinion.  Love has no color.  Love can not be put into a box.  Lets think for a second.  There are people that are much older than our parents, that are fare skin.  So that is proof that love is powerful.  If those people were able to mate then and not caring of the outcome.  Why care today?  Sometimes it seems as if our ancestors fought for equality for nothing.  Love who you want, no matter the color.  This is Rodney Larkins with Soul Filled Life

If you can Dream It You Can Be It.
Dreams are a little glimpse into what you can have if you work hard.  Some dreams are nite mares, and the devil trying to play with your mind.  The dreams that are of you living a good life beautiful family, nice house, and wonderful career; that is what you can have.  All you have to do is believe in yourself.  Dreams are real, real as you make them.  Sometimes it maybe hard to believe that you can have those things in your dreams.  But that is no reason not to try.  See you will never know how far you can go unless you first put forth the effort needed to make your dreams come true.  Nothing worth having, worth keeping, comes easy.  Life is not like a box of chocolates, you know your gonna get chocolates.  It is up to you what type of chocolates you get in your life.  If you need help with that dream, let me know maybe I can help.  This is Rodney Larkins with Soul Filled Life.  Remember, if you can dream it you can be it.

Do not let your status in life stop you from helping others

Did you know that everyone of us has something inside to share that can help someone in their lives?  Well it's true.  In today's society people have the answers needed to change a life, but to scared to open their mouths.  In some cases people do not care or they will purposely give the wrong information.  The more you share the more people will share with you.  Lets start with one of the popular ones in the black community, the women saying I am independent.  The truth is; we should be teaching people that say that ignorant crap that we all need each other.  If you live with your mom your not independent.  If you are on housing your not independent.  If your mom watch your kids and you do not pay her you are not independent.  This is not to talk down on anyone.  I just want people to start helping each other by telling the truth.  A girl once told me, that she was independent.  The first thing to fly out my mouth was where are your kids.  Can you guess what she said?  Yeap, my momma got them.  So I said to her true independence is a myth.  We all need someone to help us to exist.  Next, if you receive child support and or the other parent is active in the child's life, your not a single parent.  You're just single.   We need to be honest that is the only way things can change.  Stop telling someone their outfit is cute  then behind their back talk about them.  If they look ratchet, tell them.  If you want to have a soul filled life help people, tell them the truth.  If they tell you something that can help you use it, apply it to your life.  This is Rodney Larkins Do not let your status in your life stop you from helping others.

Spoiling Yourself youtube video link...check it out

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Klm0iImcyqc&feature=youtu.be

Hello everyone, first I would like to thank everyone for checking out Soul Filled Life.  My vision for this page, as well as the world is growth.  To achieve growth you have to be transformed.  I feel people must work together in order to make a true transformation in life.  If I am aware of any knowledge that may benefit anyone, I am going to share it.  There is to many crabs in a bucket thinkers, in this world.  We as people must rise above hatred, and only live to love.  I would like to give you a peak into types of subjects we will touch on.  "Any and everything"  LOL  I am so joking. I'm not telling lol I want you all to see it first hand, trust me we will laugh and cry together.  In the end we will be closer than family.  If anyone ever asks you how you see your life, tell them Soul Filled.  Good night